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Friday, November 6, 2009

赏识教育初学者面对的困扰 Difficulties~ Appreciation Education Beginners

由于几千年来,我们都生长在抱怨教育的环境。现在出现了赏识教育,它对我们来说是一个全新的观念,它也是我们一个很陌生的朋友,我们有时都在排斥它。



A long time ago, all of us grew up in the environment of Complaining Education. Appreciation Education is a new friend to us, some of us are eliminating it.



要学习赏识教育,一定会碰到一些挫折与困扰。由于我们身上都沾满了抱怨的恶习,如果要排毒,不但要有足够的勇气,也要有毅力和智慧,去面对恶习的纠缠。



During learning how to appreciate, we will surely face some problems and difficulties. As we are being polluted by Complaining Education, if we want to clear it, we should have enough bravery, full determination and excellent knowledge.



1. 勇气-排毒过程需要无比的勇气,因为我们会不断碰见抱怨教育的忠实支持者。



2. 毅力-排毒过程反反复复需要无比的毅力,因为反反复复我们又会投入抱怨教育的怀抱。由量变到质变也是要有耐心的。



3. 智慧-排毒过程需要无比的智慧,因为我们要练好一双火眼金睛,才不会误入抱怨教育的陷阱。不要像猪八戒那样被外表所迷惑;要学孙悟空火眼金睛透过现象看本质。

1. Bravery- During detoxification process, we must have undefined wisdom and a lot of courage, because from time to time we will meet supporters of Complaining Education.

2. Determination- During detoxification process, we must have undefined determination and patience, because we will start complaining again repeatedly.

3. Knowledge & Wisdom- During detoxification process, we must be trained to have piercing eyes, this is done so that we will not be trapped by Complaining Education.


所以当孩子犯错时,做父母的要去:坚信孩子心灵深处都有个好孩子,自己的孩子永远是最棒的,最乖的。

给父母的话:孩子做好时,你们会赏识他吗?孩子做不好时,你们还会赏识他吗?记得!别人心中的好孩子要用自己心中的好孩子来换取。

Everytime when children make mistakes, parents should always believe that their child are always the best.

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