Monday, March 29, 2010

妈妈变了 Mummy Had Changed~

最近考卷都发完了,虽然大致上我都考得不错。。。但是有三个科目。。。
1。中史
2。科学
3。KHB
考得不大理想。。。70-75之间。。。它们拉低了我的总平均。。但是。。。当我拿到考卷想到妈妈今天回家会如何。。。我有点紧张,也充满着希望。。。我拿了考卷,我看到了70分,虽然我觉得自己考得不是很好。但我就是一直笑个不停。。笑得很高兴得样子。。。因为我觉得我的努力也没有白费。。至少比去年进步了很多,因为我大部分的考卷后面都画了一个大拇指。。这个大拇指给了我很大的信心与快乐。让我在考得不好时,给我勇气,面带笑容,不怕失败的思想就此出现。
惊讶的是,妈妈反而没有骂我。。还一直夸奖我。。说我已经考得很好了,她说她为了我的分数而感到高兴骄傲。。。她温馨说:“以后再努力,我相信我的乖儿子一定能够成为第一名的!”我听了,心里不只觉得舒服,还发现妈妈一直以来对我的爱一直都在加深。。。只是没有用正确的方式表达出来而已。。她今天总于站出来了,因为我也是一直都在相信她,等待着这一天的到来。
当我把这个故事告诉给班上的一些同学时,他们都彻底地感动了,还非常羡慕我有个那么懂得怎么样真正地去爱一个孩子的母亲,因为他们本身的父母亲都中了抱怨教育的毒。他们都说我的妈妈可以这么好去赏识我,鼓励我。哇。。那时听了,我也觉得很自豪,也很同情,因为他们都还没试过被父母这样的赏识。我就鼓励他们抽空来行知文教发展中心做义工,能够更了解赏识教育。。。
~我的妈妈变了~变好了~。。。
Recently I had all of my exam papers collected, although most of them are good results, but they are still three which had pulled down a lot on my overall mark..
1. Chinese History
2. Science
3. KHB
When I just got these papers, my mind was just thinking about my mother... what reaction will she do? When I got these papers, all I did was LAUGH... I just laugh laugh laugh Happily...at least I scored much more better than last year, and at the last page of every subject paper, I drew a "Thumbs Up"... This is the drawing that gave me confidence, gave me happiness and also the positive thinking mind of Failure....
The amazing part is, my mom didn't scold me, but she praised me.. She said that I had already being doing very well this year and she is proud of me... She also added: Keep it up! I believe one day my son will get No.1 in class!" I was so touched after listening to this. My heart relaxes and I felt more comfortable. My mother's love towards me had being increasing for as long as I live... Onl she didn't express it in the right way.. And she changed, because I believed that she will change one day too..
When I told this story to some of my friends, they were truly touched, and they were admiring my mother... They said that I am very lucky to have a mother like that. Because among them, only my mother can true love a child, by appreciation, by encouragement.... SWhereas their own parents are still trapped in Complaining Education.... Wow! I was also touched by my mother, and also I felt pity for them, because they had never being appreciated by their parents for so long. I felt proud and happy for myself and for my mother... I encouraged my friends to come to the XingZhi Development Centre to learn more about Appreciation Education.
~At last, My Mom Changed~ Into a Beautiful one~

40 comments:

  1. 骏俊,
    姑姑和曾校长为你感到自豪,相信在你继续努力下不只你的妈妈和爸爸会越变越好,所有上网看你博客的爸爸妈妈都会因此而得到启示和激励,他们也会像你的爸妈学习。加油!我们爱你!

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  2. 文骏,
    恭喜你妈妈学会赏识教育, 你们全家都会很快乐!让我向你妈致敬,她真得好棒!加油!
    培正校长张碧玉

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