Thank you for our class teachers who had been teaching us for 11 months this year. But I think some of you should learn how to appreciate yoursleves and your families. And of course, students too. This post is mainly for teachers, but it also helps in parents.
首先我先列出来当学生做错时老师们处理的方式：
1。罚站
2。抄写文章
3。狠骂
4。甚至打学生
对不起可能我说得太过火了，但我一定要告诉您们，如果您们想要学生成绩顶呱呱，或是品行良好，打骂是没用的。我也了解当学生顽皮时您们火冒充天的心情，但在赏识教育的眼里，学生永远是乖的。
First let me list out the ways teachers treat/punish their students when they make mistakes:
1. Stand outside the classroom
2. Copy sentences 20 times+
3. Scold
4. Being beaten seriously
Sorry, maybe I said it too rough. But I must tell all teachers that: If you want your students to get good marks, or you want them to have a good attitude, SCOLDING & BEATING is NO USE. I know what teachers feel when their students are naughty. But in Appreciation Education, students are always gentle and soft.
当您们打骂或处罚学生时，就等于在伤害他们的心灵。学生更不会尊重您们，甚至在后面玩弄您们。学生会继续恨您们，排斥您们。这样您们和学生的关系就会相当减少。到了这种地步时，您们觉得他们会做一个好学生吗？一定不会。
Punishing students as if you are breaking their hearts. Will they respect you? Will they like you?Will they be a good student in your eyes? Will they set up a good relationship with you? I don't think so....
所以赏识学生的方法有：
1。 成绩方面
2。 品行方面
3。 其他
Appreciating students from the following ways:
1. In Studies
2. In Attitude
3. Others
一， 成绩方面
老师们想一想，学生考得十分优异时，您们又是称赞又是奖赏；那么那些考得不理想的呢？又是骂又是讽刺又是惩罚！为什么这种学生得不到赏识呢？所以老师们，当学生考不好时，走向前，拍一拍他的肩膀，摸一摸他的头，说：“小民啊！为什么心情不好？是不是考试的问题？没关系，反正你已经尽力了啊！今年考不好，明年再来，我相信你总有一天你的成绩一定会进步的！我问你，失败时是哭的还是笑的啊？”说了那么关怀的话，连我都会感动地流眼泪，心里也想着：老师说我行的，我一定行！学生眼睛一亮，信心和毅力也跟着表现出来了。
多 说 关 怀 的 话, 少 说 伤 人 的 话
1. In Studies
What will you teachers do when students scored high in exams. Good Good Good all the way home, some even bought sweets and chocolates for those students... But... how about those who got poor marks? Scold larh... I am always very curious, why those students cannot be appreciated? Teachers, whenever some students did not score well, just walk towards them, pat them on the shoulder, and say gently:"Never mind, you've tried all your best right? Let's start again next year, ok? I believe you can score well next time. Let me ask you, Failure we--- Cry or Smile?" If that student was me, I would be so touched that I will cry. Teacher says I can do it, so I really can do it!! When a student's eyes start to shine, courageness is tagging along behind him...
二， 品 行 方 面
我也知道您们遇过操行十分恶劣的学生。那么这些学生怎么样被赏识呢？首先，当一位学生在发脾气或在课室捣乱时，第一老师都不能对他大声责骂，这样只会使到他更顽皮。老师应该改正他的错误，用温柔及关怀的语气给予劝告及慰问，而不是在落井下石。第一句就是问他：“为什么今天心情不好啊？发生了什么事可以和老师说吗？说不定老师可以帮你哦！”他听了这一句，自动会知道老师在关心她，就会把事情说出来。老师们就要用同样的语气和他解释，安慰他。下次如果他在重犯，就对全班同学说他进步了许多，叫班上同学给他一个掌声。经过老师们的赏识及辅导，他以后就会像变了另一人似的。
2. In Attitude
All teachers will have surely met students who are very weak in their behaviour. Whenever a student plays pranks in class or does anything bad, teachers should not directly scold them. This will only make them even naughtier. A teacher should console and advise him in a gentle way, not hurting his feelings. First a teacher should ask him(gently):" Why you are so unhappy today? Can you tell me what happened? I can help you." The student will then know that the teacher is caring about him, and he will tell the teacher what happened. Then the teacher should talk or explain to him and help him to overcome the problem. If the student does the same thing but much better next time, teachers should praise him in front of the class. The more the teacher praises and appreciates him, the better the student will be.
三，其他
其他方面就包括了课外活动，分工合作等。老师们都要给予学生赏识，鼓励，及关怀。这样，学生快乐，老师们也快乐，整个学校都充满欢笑声了。可见老师对学生来说是多么重要的呢！
3. Others
This includes Corruriculum, Helping and lots.... Teachers are so important to students because they have to give students happiness, then everyone in the school will also be happy. Appreciate Students, Teachers! :-)
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